Saturday, May 07, 2005
i so hate being emotional.
Felt girly yesterday man. i went for manicure and pedicure with the girls, went for my haircut, had make up on and was dressed in a gown to attend alan's wedding at furama hotel yesterday. heh. i swear it only happens one a year.
i sat and watched the video montage before the wedding ceremony. the usual thing tt happens before the march in.. i had tried hard to keep tears back, it was a very touching story of the newly weds. i couldnt let the tears come out, if not it would smudge my mascara.. (see tts y i dun like to put on make up..!)
as the montage was going on, i had vivid images of myself getting married. okie, i know this sounds a bit not right, but being in a r.ship for almost 2 years, i know it aint easy being in one. ppl outside us see the lovey dovey side and i lost count of the no. of times i was asked if we were married. tt aside, it takes an immense amt of trust, of give and take, of communication, of care and concern to keep that r.ship going on and on. quoting the late mr wee, "the secret of a healthy r.ship is alwix to give a little and take a little."
for alan and jennifer, they had their fair share of ups and downs. seeing the montage and remembering those days they quarrelled and we had our all ladies talk in the middle of yishun dam brought some startling thoughts.
just what really bring 2 couples together.. sustain that long, and at the end of it, get married and happily ever after? or what issit tt happened midway so much so tt divorce comes along the way?
what touched me the most was seeing how jen's mum was looking at the montage and smiling to herself. it must have been a great night for her.. seeing her own daughter grow up for 24 years and finally now getting married. my mum used to joke tt my dad will cry the day i get married.. =P
okie, if at the end of this blog, you are thinking.. "denise is going to get married soon..." hell no. haha.. im just getting emotional over tt video montage and just tots on my own marriage.. how i'll have fun with my buds. -laughs- once in a lifetime. realli. =)
i sat and watched the video montage before the wedding ceremony. the usual thing tt happens before the march in.. i had tried hard to keep tears back, it was a very touching story of the newly weds. i couldnt let the tears come out, if not it would smudge my mascara.. (see tts y i dun like to put on make up..!)
as the montage was going on, i had vivid images of myself getting married. okie, i know this sounds a bit not right, but being in a r.ship for almost 2 years, i know it aint easy being in one. ppl outside us see the lovey dovey side and i lost count of the no. of times i was asked if we were married. tt aside, it takes an immense amt of trust, of give and take, of communication, of care and concern to keep that r.ship going on and on. quoting the late mr wee, "the secret of a healthy r.ship is alwix to give a little and take a little."
for alan and jennifer, they had their fair share of ups and downs. seeing the montage and remembering those days they quarrelled and we had our all ladies talk in the middle of yishun dam brought some startling thoughts.
just what really bring 2 couples together.. sustain that long, and at the end of it, get married and happily ever after? or what issit tt happened midway so much so tt divorce comes along the way?
what touched me the most was seeing how jen's mum was looking at the montage and smiling to herself. it must have been a great night for her.. seeing her own daughter grow up for 24 years and finally now getting married. my mum used to joke tt my dad will cry the day i get married.. =P
okie, if at the end of this blog, you are thinking.. "denise is going to get married soon..." hell no. haha.. im just getting emotional over tt video montage and just tots on my own marriage.. how i'll have fun with my buds. -laughs- once in a lifetime. realli. =)
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