alrite.. i was suppose to write bout 3 very heart warming events i saw within this week.. before i begin writing them.. pls dun mistaken tt im desperate for marriage.. i just think these are the small lil sweet things a guy can ever do.. to melt the hearts of their loved one..
1st event: happened on the 8th.. after i finish sky dining with my boy.. saw this guy opening the boot of his car.. i think he was going to propose to his gf or something.. there was this HUGE HUGE HUGE bouquet of rose lah! i swear ive never seen such a HUGE bouquet in my life! so HUGE tt even if i were to join my hands together to form a circle.. it wouldnt be enuf! they were pretty roses.. one colour in every circle.. i bet there were 999 roses there.. so sweet la.. im not a sucker for flowers..but realli the action.. the thought.. *drools* (maybe yellow roses.. but sharon says its nt good.. coz yellow defines friendship.. haha! maybe tts y me and raymond ended up as friends.. coz he's alwix giving me yellow roses! -grin-)
2nd event: dinner yesterday at FRIENDS. met one of my boy's friend called wong i think. i call him the SNAG. Sensitive New Age Guy. the words he said touched my heart.. at least for a while.. heh. looks like he has done some homework.. and is getting to understanding the fairer sex realli well.. with the make up.. with the shopping.. its a good thing.. and once again.. its the effort to want to understand us at the same time understand his future wife tt touched my heart.. and he shot the arrow right thru my heart when he talked bout insecurities and sensitivity. it was just wat was in my mind. *WAH* he talked bout the 1 or 2 carat ring tt he wanna buy for his future wife..tt set me thinking bout the issue of whether or not it was necessary. then i concluded, its not whether the gal is someone materialistic.. is whether the guy wanna give her something she will be proud to show off and say.. "my husband bought this for me.." well, its good to know tt such guys still exist.. i lost count when was the last time i met someone super gentlemanly. singaporean guys. *pui*
3rd event: just happened 10 minutes ago.. i was browsing thru friendster in an attempt to pass time.. caught sight of my friend michelle. she and her beau.. together for 10 years liow la.. a decade!!! and her hubby proposed on their 10th anniversary.. at underwater world. -melts- he was in the diving suit.. one hand with flowers.. one hand with a sign tt says.. "will you marry me?" so sweet la..! and i think it was all pre arranged.. coz some photographer caught sight of her tearing while darren did tt. i think if its me.. i'll need 2 buckets in front of me.
so there.. within this week, i realise tt if guys realli wanna make an effort to do things for their love ones.. they'll realli go all the way out for it.. to plan the surprises.. to buy the flowers.. but i still think the most difficult part is the understanding of us women.. coz ladies, if u do realise.. sometimes we have difficulties understanding ourselves. the next time u have moodswings.. (tt is if u realise u have one tt is..), ask urself.. "y am i feeling this way.." u'll have no answer to tt. or maybe if u have.. share w me k.. heh.
in a nutshell, its just whether u guys wanna do it or not.. and not do it when u feel like it. my dear friend A can wake up everyday and tells himself the first ting in the morning tt he'll treat his gal good. issit because he took his ex gf of 8 years for granted tt he onli felt pain when she left him?
-shrugs-
complication. i dun like.
i wanna go home liow.. feeling tired..im meeting my dear jo later.. but she hasnt replied me on wat time to mit.. hmmmz.. asia bar.. never been there.. hope its gonna b fun!
laters
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